January, 2020

I wish I could have saved you…

By on January 30, 2020

It was late in the afternoon on a hot summer day and I was working evening shift.  It was about five or six PM and I had to stop by the station for something.  Irritated over the fact that I had to leave my beat, I concluded my business and was walking back to my patrol car […]

Fear and Spiders

By on January 21, 2020

Has your child ever yelled in terror for you to come running because there is a HUGE spider – one they are SURE is a black widow or brown recluse – in their room and they need you to kill it?  You run in there with all of your supplies: a cup, a sheet of paper, […]

Men Don’t Talk About Such Things

By on January 10, 2020

Pain, hurt, trauma, men don’t talk about such things. At least that’s what a lot of us are taught from an early age.  I was no different.  We are supposed to be tough, meaning we are not to show emotions or feelings because to do so is to show weakness, unless they are emotions of […]